I chose July 16, Solemnity of Our Lady of Mount Carmel, as my own feast day. Why? I could have chosen any feast of Our Lady since I retained my baptismal name, Mary. As a child I always had an incredible love and devotion to Mary. Carmelites consider Mary to be a perfect model of the interior life so I could not have a greater mentor. I always pray to Mary to cover me with the mantle of her special protection, especially while driving or in demanding situations. Like St. Therese, I can honestly say through the years that Mary has been more mother than Queen. To paraphrase a hymn to Our Lady of Mount Carmel that has become my favorite: I pray “Dear Virgin Mother, Lady of Mt. Carmel, Let the dew of grace descend upon me, since dear Mother I belong to you!